” saw a zero percent increase in the amount of responses received.
(If anyone who has ever used a dating app had a dime for every time we got that boring opener, we could live like Scrooge Mc Duck.) The experiment also found that asking “What’s the most awkward movie you’ve ever watched with your parents?
Your mother always told you so and you never really believed it too much, but the fact is that first impressions really count.
And this couldn’t be more true when it comes to contacting someone online.
Online dating gives you a bit of an advantage in that you can strategically plan that first message so it hits home with a bit of a punch.
Unlike an everyday face to face meeting where the words just tumble from your mouth in no apparent order.
And I’m going to share a small number of them with you now. Simply scanning over it briefly, will give you a more natural gut reaction, and make it easier for you to respond to the 1 or 2 things that really got your attention. When you meet a new woman in real life, you don’t analyze her in depth.
Struggling to think of the right thing to say to an attractive match?
Here’s match.com’s relationship expert Kate Taylor with dating advice on how to give great copy.
If my photos pass the creep test check out my profile. Hi, my name is [Name], I wanted to start off by saying that you have a beautiful family.
I'd like to know your thoughts on [Interest in her profile .... I know how busy you must be, so I will keep this short, but I noticed we had some things in common, I've been [listening to the same music she likes, watched a TV show she likes, working out ... Family comes first, but I wanted to know what you enjoy doing if you'd have time to relax by yourself?