When I approach him on his flirty behavior with women, he claims it is a sexual energy on the dance floor that he finds exciting, but it does not mean that he wants to sleep with them.My fear is what happens when one of them wants to sleep with him?
Maybe he feels like he’s getting mixed signals from you…
We are in our mid-forties and sometimes I find his behavior repulsive.
I have chosen to no longer go out to these places with him because I feel like I cannot compete with young 20-somethings…nor do I want to and he loves the attention he gets from being a good dancer.
A woman who bats her lashes indiscriminately seems like a challenge at first—? After a while guys realize that the Flirty-Bird needs constant attention because she’s stricken with major self-esteem issues.
An extremely confident and patient man may be able to deal with this kind of behavior, but he’ll probably run himself ragged before realizing that the Flirty-Bird isn’t worth his time. You meet a fantastic woman and you’re having a great first date.