The twin emotions of judged when you feel the weight of your partner’s regret and struggle to process what their sins mean for you.
Obsession, because you want to let the past be the past, but only after your own morbidly detailed investigation — and because you stubbornly refuse to be rejected and overlooked for the purity which you’ve guarded so diligently.
They appear to be a little put off by a guy who hasn’t even kissed a girl by age 30.
How can the guys “get” some experience at this late date in the game?
Dear Rosie & Sherry, I am a 36-year-old man and have never been involved in any serious dating. I fear that my chances of being married and having children are almost nil. I was an unpopular kid in high school, getting picked on constantly and not fitting in.
The only friends I had were other unpopular kids who were isolated from the mainstream. I was a nerd without the academic ability -- a terrible combination.
Due to my poor social skills, I had trouble getting along with co-workers and bosses.The reflex reaction of the insecure is to quantify oneself, especially physically: to rush to numbers for security, to resort to inches to feel worthy, to run to the scale to feel loveable.Here are six truths to help still your heart, quiet the lies, and proceed with compassionate caution and wisdom in a relationship with someone who has a sexual history. Whether you measure up to anyone else or not, if you buy into the lie that love should be quantified, you destroy real intimacy.Perhaps some kind of open thread could be created in the forums at you to talk to one another?Perhaps you could join one of the conventional dating sites and use a special hashtag or code word in your profiles to find each other?