You can’t have a relationship, after all, without sharing the same goals or dreams.
Dating can get monotonous, so be sure to have a few interesting questions up your sleeve.
You have to admit it’s fun; the fact that you are, for once, allowed to judge people by their looks or your shallow first impressions is exhilarating.
However, to be fair, I have met some wonderful guys online and wasn’t completely creeped out by them. We have been slowly removing the need for face to face interaction in almost every aspect of our lives, to the point that we don’t need it. I just included this because the answer is hell yes!
It would save a lot of headaches and heartache, wouldn't it? This kind of "first impression" information is very helpful as you think about who you will or won't consider dating. Not exactly the kind of people you want to trust with your self-image or your reputation. Are you headed in the same general direction in life? If you’re a woman, here are the questions you should ask before you say, “yes” to a date. How do you feel about going out with a high-energy woman who is a doer as opposed to someone more laid back? What do you think about a woman who tends to be independent and forceful, and expects to be treated as a 100% equal. What’s your reaction to being with a woman who can be jealous, even possessive and who will demand total fidelity? What would women from past relationships say about how comfortable you were giving and receiving a lot of affection? What do you think about a woman who let’s you know she won’t tolerate being ignored or neglected? When it comes to being a dependable person, who can be counted on to keep your commitments, what would past relationships say about you? What’s your attitude toward enjoying the finer pleasures of life like good food, great music, dressing well, sensuous sex? What would women from past relationships say about you being a man who enjoyed courting a woman and pursuing her until you’ve won her heart? How do you feel about a passionate partner, who enjoys great sex and having it often? What are your thoughts between the choices of having a monogamous relationship or one where you could enjoy some variety? Which do you enjoy more: intellectual stimulation and interesting conversation or relaxing in front of the TV watching a football game? How would you feel if you were in a relationship with a woman who was restless, changeable and liked to do seven things at once? I enjoy activities such as philosophical discussions, travel, sports and just being outdoors. If you get a flat-out “No,” you know what you’re getting yourself into. It’s better to talk now about sexual preferences, desires, hopes and expectations than after you put a ring on it! Some want their partner to put dinner on the table every night, while others are happy with a life of takeout. While jobs and life can take couples places they never imagined going, it’s a good idea to see if you at least have the same type of lifestyle in mind.From socializing to vacations to sex to household and financial roles and responsibilities, getting a clearer picture of expectations tells you whether or not you and your partner’s desires match up. For example, some people want to live near their family. Where you live has a direct impact on your lifestyle and consequently can make for a happier or more stressed existence.