You have been raised on a different continent, in a different culture and with completely different values.I know, you are fascinated by these beautiful and sexy dark-skinned girls.i am a very attractive black female, i still retain my same look from when i was first married , i used to be a professional model but stopped as my husband told me no married woman should model, i cook his food , i speak his language small, i go back and forth to naija alone without him just to go with the kids to see his mother and family, his family are very sweet people and i love them tremendously.i am not very boisterous, and i respect him to the utmost, everyone that sees our relationship ponders if he is possessed, as he has the ultimate wife, even his sisters said tehy could not take the things from any naija man that i take.Traditionally whoever makes the money calls the shots.In those days women were not educated and domestics cooking and cleaning.
It goes on to add that couples tend to start a relationship based on four important reasons: the attractiveness of the partner, shared common interests, shared similar entertainment interests, and socio-economic similarities.I have also tried my best to support him in any way I can.This situation is frustating hurtful and embarrasing but all I can say is give it to God and ask him to show us the answers.139343909 #17476By dprincejay on Wednesday, February 08, 2006 - am Looking 4an answer I wish we could get to chat and discuss in private outside the forum so that I can tell you what to do and we can with time work out things I believe you could win your man from any issues he might have gone into waiting to read from you.My biggest problem with him is love, he shows me none, but prefers to watch pornos with white girls, and im down for anything, i will but them if he wants, but he totally blocks me out of his life emotionally, whenever he travels, i can NEVER go, like to Canada, but when he is there , he parties and flirts around, i know because people tell me, and coincidences of women picking his phone ... I basically do not know who to discuss this with , maybe there is something im doing as an american woman that is something a naija woman would do that i dont know, because i am the one who suggests things for him to do with me intimately, and he forbades it , but yet oogles it on screen, and probably does it when he is outside, i hate to ruin my marraige over this issue, but after 6 years oif non affection, trying every trick in the book, and i do mean EVERY TRICK IN THE BOOK!!!!!!!!! any advice is welcomed, as i need affection to, it is only natural. thank you for reading this.139189724 #17466By nai1 on Monday, February 06, 2006 - am I am a african american women married to an Igbo Nigerian man.I have had similiar issues including verbal abuse non affection including very little sex and lack of emotion.