(DISCLAIMER: I’m half Chinese and this is written tongue in cheek.So before you call me racist, have a laugh and learn something that could change your life) I realise that your slanted little eyes and off-yellow skin makes it difficult for anyone to love you…My friend entered her ethnicity as Arab in Coffee Meets Bagel (you DO have the option not to state your ethnicity).Yet she explicitly stated “no preference” in terms of potential suitors’ ethnicity – she was interested in seeing people of all different backgrounds.
If you don’t, you simply pass and wait for a new bagel in twenty-four hours.
It’s as if the Chinese are so foreign it doesn't count.
In the UK, Sherry Fang, a 26-year-old British Chinese student, tells me she's had strangers say to her “you look just like his ex, she was also Chinese”, and argues it would be wholly inappropriate if she were black or Indian.
But is it true that it’s ESPECIALLY hard for you to ? If you’re anything like most Asian guys, you probably believe it is.
Somewhere through your childhood, you had some bad expereince where a white woman turned you down, VICIOUSLY stomped all over your heart and you’ve been scarred from that moment onwards.